Try not to Understand So Much, and Accept Some More

　　'We've lost him,' she said. It took me moment to realise she was talking about Gulliver.

　　'Well,' I said, 'maybe we just have to accept him as he is, even if he's different to what we've known.'

　　'I just don't understand him. You know, he's our son. And we've known him for sixteen years. And yet, I feel like I don't know him at all.'

　　'Well, maybe we should try not to understand so much, and accept some more.'

The Humans, P127
Matt Haig
ISBN 978-0-85786-876-3